This is dating, relationship and sexuality coaching with the two of us, designed for clients who want to think out loud, learn, ask questions they cannot ask anyone else and walk away with insights they can actually use. The session is talk-based and non-sexual, with the option to bring in practical hands-on elements separately through our hands-on sex education service.
Every coaching session is built around what you bring. Common topics clients ask us to work with include:
- Dating skills, including online dating, first dates, reading attraction and building real connection
- Communication in romantic relationships, particularly around needs, desire and difficult conversations
- Sexual confidence and getting clear on what you actually want
- Opening up your sexuality, including bi-curiosity, kink-curiosity or questions about non-monogamy
- Relationship structures, including monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and the variations between them
- Reconnecting with a long-term partner where the spark has thinned
- Recovering from a breakup, divorce or significant relational loss
- Self-knowledge work around attachment patterns, sexual shame and where these came from
- Specific scenarios you are stuck in, where another perspective from people who think about this stuff for a living would be useful
The session can be one-on-one with one of us, with both of us together, or as a couples coaching booking where you and your partner come in together.
How we offer this experience
Our coaching is grounded in real lived experience. We are a couple who genuinely live what we talk about: a long-term romantic partnership that has navigated openness, hot-wifing, professional intimacy work, deep emotional growth and the everyday practice of staying connected. We bring that lived experience alongside years of reading, thinking and coaching others through similar territory.
We are not therapists, and we are clear about that. The work is coaching: insight, perspective, practical strategy and real conversation. If your situation needs clinical mental health support, we will say that and refer you on. For everything else, we are confident in what we offer.
Evie brings warm, attuned, intuitive presence and is good at the inner work side of conversations. Axel brings steady, philosophical, and practical perspectives and is good at the relational dynamics and communication side. Together we offer a fuller view than most coaching can.
Who tends to book this with us
Coaching clients come to us across many situations. Single people working out what they actually want from dating and relationships. Couples who want to reconnect or work through specific stuck points. People exploring their sexuality or relationship structure for the first time. Recently separated clients rebuilding their sense of themselves. Anyone who has decided that real conversation with people who actually do this work is what they need.
Booking an education session
Reach out with a message telling us what you would like to work on, whether you would like to book one of us or both, and the rough length you are after. We will respond with availability and any practical considerations. Sessions length is usually recommended for two hours, though shorter or longer bookings can be arranged.
Education escort service sessions are held at our private space in inner Melbourne, with comfortable seating and tea or coffee provided. We can also do video coaching sessions for clients outside Melbourne or interstate, and outcalls for in-person sessions are available across Melbourne and surrounding areas.