Hands-on sex education is one of the most useful, least available and most needed services in the adult world. Most adults learn about sex from porn, awkward experiences and trial-and-error. Almost nobody is taught the actual skills, the body literacy, the real-time reading of another person, the slowness, the communication, the techniques that take a session from forgettable to remarkable. We offer that learning directly, with our bodies and yours, in a coaching context.
This is hands-on sex education, designed for clients who want to actually learn skills practically, in a setting where you get to ask questions and get hands-on guidance.
What we can teach in a session
Every hands-on coaching session is built around what you want to develop. Common areas clients come to us to learn include:
- How to give oral sex to a vulva-owner, including reading their body, varying pace, using your hands well and building intensity over time
- How to give oral sex to a penis-owner, including breath, hands and pacing
- How to find and work with the clitoris, the G-spot and other areas
- Communication skills inside sex itself, including how to ask, consent and how to read non-verbal cues
- How to take your time, including pacing, sensation building, the difference between performance sex and real sex
- Dirty talk and verbal eroticism, including how to find your own voice in it
- Specific techniques you have always been unsure about, where you want to actually be shown how to do it well
The session can be structured: we will teach, demonstrate, then guide you through trying yourself, with feedback in real time and conversation woven through.
Who tends to come to us for this
Hands-on sex education clients come to us across many situations. People who want to be better lovers and have decided to actually invest in learning. Recently single people who want to upskill before they re-enter dating. Long-term partnered clients who want to bring something new home to their primary relationship. Clients who realise they were never properly taught any of this and want to start from a stronger foundation. Older clients who are entering a new chapter of their sexual life and want to refresh their skills.
Booking a hands-on sex education session
Reach out with a message telling us what you would like to learn, your current experience level and any specific skills or scenarios you want to work on. We will respond with what is possible, recommended length and any practical considerations.
Hands-on sex education escort service sessions are held at our private space in inner Melbourne. Outcall sex coaching at your hotel is available across Melbourne and the surrounding areas, and we also offer FMTY travel sessions.